Pent up Frustration ..
Saturday, June 25, 2011 @ 2:17 AM
I remember stating that this blog will be nothing except Happy and Fun stuff, right ??
NOW, I'm gonna make an exception. Because too much pent-up anger inside of me. Here goes :-
Issue 1 :
Me and my friends, we planned to go on an oversea trip somewhere in July. All was fine where we first decided it will be just da 4 of us. Then, one of us decided to bring his Girl along and he asked us whether we mind she tag along. Since you asked, and it's just additional one more person : No, I don't mind. There's where the problem starts ..
The Girlfriend felt uneasy that she follow with us to oversea because she don't know the other 3 well. ANY NORMAL PERSON will just say "No, I decided not to tag alone because it will be weird". But no, da Girlfriend requested to bring ANOTHER FRIEND of hers along, to accompany her. The boyfriend, he asked the other 2 EXCEPT ME. He assumes that if the other 2 is ok with it, I WILL BE OKAY WITH IT.
The answer is, " FREAKING NO !! I'm not freaking okay with it." This trip is supposed to be just da 4 of us and we told you that if you bring your girlfriend along, we can't be ourselves because we have to be conscious of others' feeling (in reference, we may do stupid stuff). You ACTUALLY agreed with us. When you suggest to bring your girl, I already give in one step by agreeing so. Wah, give you one inch, you wanted one yard. Now you let her bring a friend along.
And why you didn't let me know ?? Instead, I've to hear from somebody else. I know da real reason why you didn't ask me, 'cause you know I will say no. So you rather ask the other 2 who may just agree and just bottled up their displeasure than to ask me, who you know will disagree GREATLY. If you wanted your girlfriend to tag along, I'm okay. But if she is to ask her friend along, don't you think you should ask ALL of us instead of just 2 out of 3 ?? If she felt uneasy, she can just don't go. Why must die die tag along ?? 3 days never see you, will die is it ? What the hell ..
So now, I'm basically going oversea with 3 friends and 2 strangers. So not going to talk to them just to show my displeasurement. I'm already foreseeing conflicts to happen during the trip. If any of the strangers make noise, I WILL NOT HOLD BACK AND JUST LASH IT OUT ON YOU, OUTSIDER. Just you wait and see ..
Issue 2 :
I hate being make used of. AND I CERTAINLY HATE FRIENDS / RELATIVES in da line of Insurance/ Social Marketing and those typical Invest here and there jobs. Friends / Relatives who are in da Line of Insurance or Social Marketing, before they went into this line, they are like those " Hi-Bye Friends" or close friends.
But once they got into this line, they will start to pounce on their friends to buy this policy, invest that policy and etc, just so they can have some sales.
I SERIOUSLY DESPISE SUCH PEOPLE.
One good example, would be this army friend that I knew of. During Army time, I'll hardly talk to him (As we are in different camp) unless I saw him. Then maybe some superficial conversation before going our way. Then suddenly, after ORD, he would come and find me for lunch once a week. Sounds very friendly right ?? You've wait till the second part.
The first meeting is always simple : We met, a little catch-up about our current Life, what we used to do in Army. Then, the 2nd meeting, he/she will show their true face : As per usual, meet and catch-up, random chit-chatting. It's when we are parting, they will say "Oh, maybe you will like to hear me about our latest policy. Just for information only .." There's where they will psycho you to buy their product because 1) They're your friend and you feel bad for rejecting them. 2) Help them a bit because after all, well, they are still your friend.
Blah blah blah .. Ok, you buy the policy liao. Then PATTERN come liao. From a weekly meet-up, become once a month meet up. Then chit chatting, they will always check their phone and not listening to what you said. You ask them something, if you managed to get the message across, they will reply .. 35% of the time. Da rest of the %, you are basically talking to yourself.
I don't know why I'm always surrounded by such retardation living things. So practical. Once achieved target, move on to the next one, the other 1 can don't care liao since they already buy the plan le. My god damn cousin also like that. Just because I didn't buy the plan from her, SHE HAS STOPPED TALKING TO ME. VERY WELL, you are not part of my life from the beginning and you are never to be part of it at all.
These kind of relatives/friends also got. Shame on them. Ok, being duped to buy da plan but since it's for myself, I'm still okay with it but having such experience, really broaden my view on what kind of people exist in the world.
A painful advice : If your friend ask you to invest this, buy that .. DON'T. Don't buy because they are you friend. When conflicts arises, see whether the term "Friends" can help to resolve things or no. Think with your head, not heart (In this case).
S4E02 .. Is up !!
Monday, June 13, 2011 @ 7:58 PM
Sorry for the late post. Went out for X-Men : First Class. Awesome movie.
Anyway, Ch0s3n - S4E02 titled : CrossRoad, is up !! Click on the link below to begin reading !!
Enjoy !!
Link : Ch0s3n (S4E02) - CrossRoad
Anyway, Ch0s3n - S4E02 titled : CrossRoad, is up !! Click on the link below to begin reading !!
Enjoy !!
Link : Ch0s3n (S4E02) - CrossRoad
New Episode !! .. Next Week. =P
Sunday, June 5, 2011 @ 4:09 AM
It's been a long time since I last updated. A couple of things I wanna let people who chanced upon my blog know :
Really hope the Get-a-way really relaxes me. Been so deprived lately ..
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A new episode is schedule to be uploaded on next Sunday, 2011.06.12 !! Faithful Readers (If any), Look forward to it and check back for the updates !!
Meanwhile, check the synopsis up beside the Chatbox !! Leave a message to let me know if there is any enquiry you wish to address or, any ideas for the newest episode. I'm always open to suggestions !!
1) My PSB Diploma Contract is here <3.
2) I'm going Vietnam on da 8th July ~ 10th July. <3
2) I'm going Vietnam on da 8th July ~ 10th July. <3
Really hope the Get-a-way really relaxes me. Been so deprived lately ..
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A new episode is schedule to be uploaded on next Sunday, 2011.06.12 !! Faithful Readers (If any), Look forward to it and check back for the updates !!
Meanwhile, check the synopsis up beside the Chatbox !! Leave a message to let me know if there is any enquiry you wish to address or, any ideas for the newest episode. I'm always open to suggestions !!
Till then, Ciaoz ~